Tormented? Perplexed? Issues have you tossing and turning? The answer, my friends, is blowing in the wind. Or wait! Ask Sara…
My boyfriend hates giving oral sex, but I have a difficult time reaching an orgasm during intercourse. We’ve been together for almost a year now. Should I just let this go?
My dear Unfulfilled,
Trust me. Just take these three easy steps. First, call the best Spa in town and make an appointment for a Brazilian. Second, soak in an aromatherapy tub. Third, entice your man into bed. Think feline, and don’t be surprised if he’s swept away in a sea of passion. On the other hand, you may not get to him that way. Try some earthy sex chat. Use your imagination to its ‘enth degree. The last resort, have a serious talk about “you Tarzan, me Jane,” and find out what is at the core of this. Be honest.
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Sara Waxman, OOnt, is an award-winning restaurant critic, best-selling cookbook author, food and travel journalist and has eaten her way through much of the free world for four decades, while writing about it in books, newspapers and magazines. She is the Editor in Chief of DINE and Destinations magazine.