Ask Sara: How Do I Introduce My “Secret” Lover?

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My boyfriend doesn’t know I have a dildo. I’m afraid he’ll freak out and feel threatened. The longer I keep it a secret, the weirder I feel, it’s like I’m having an affair with my dildo. Help.
Secret lover


My dear Secret Lover,
Be bold, you saucy pussy cat. Introduce your boy-toy as an amusement that can be mutually enjoyed. But be sensitive to the fragile male ego. Make sure the dildo that you share with your stud muffin isn’t “larger-than-life.” What you use on your own time however, is your business.
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